Have you been Naughty this year?   Of course you have, you’re looking at my site!

If you haven’t heard about FetLife yet, you need to check it out! It’s a social networking site that’s great for keeping tabs on your local kink community.  But you can also meet other perverts from around the world who are into your kinks and fetishes, and it’s totally free to join.

Fetlife is currently having a Holiday promotion where you can win 1 of 218 kinky presents donated by BDSM related advertisers. There is an assortment of high-quality items.  Floggers, corsets, bondage kits…  and much more.

Check it out here: Sit on Kinky’s Santa’s Lap!

…and join FetLife if you haven’t already!  I’m on there!  Can you find me?

I don’t have a foot fetish.  I’m not really into feet at all, but I love a good pair of boots or shoes.  Boot worship is definitely not something I’d do for just any boot or any Dom.   But, for the right pair, it is a huge turn on for me.   So much so, that I’ve been known to kiss, lick, and even fuck the right pair of boots.

…In the end, I was rewarded with the pleasure of licking cum off of his boots.    Yum!

Leather Pride Corset from www.hourglasscorsetry.com

Yay! Tomorrow is San Francisco’s Folsom Street Fair, the world’s largest leather event, and probably my favorite day of the year. Yes, better than Christmas and better than my birthday. On this day, kinksters of all ages, genders, and sexual orientations come out of the dungeons and proudly strut their stuff on the streets, celebrating their lifestyles– and the Mayor of the city actually welcomes us!

As I type this I’m getting giddy! If you’re lucky enough to be here tomorrow, ENJOY the day!!

In the last couple of weeks, due to opportunities for modeling gigs, I’ve had to change my play.  I’ve had to negotiate scenes with the strict rule of “leave no marks”. And that’s a hard thing for me- because I really do enjoy having big purple bruises and red welts, and I bruise quite easily.  These marks are reminders of ‘what a great scene you just had’, for days to come.  And sometimes, for me, they serve as a badge of courage, to remind me how strong I was in a scene.

So at first I was unsure that I could have fulfilling scenes without play that leaves marks, but I was mistaken.   All it takes is some creativity…

Last week, a play partner and I did some chemical play, knife play, nipple torture, cage play, humiliation, electrical play… and oh, my favorite- mind fucking! And no marks!

First, I learned of Tiger Balm. It’s sort of similar to icy-hot, but has a lovely cinnamon smell (like red hots!) and when placed in sensitive areas such as inner thighs and nipples, it produces a warming sensation and then burning, oh the burning! What’s worse, water and sweat enhances the burn. And wow is it a killer when combined with nipple clamps! Even brought me to tears.

I also love cages, and I got to spend some quality time in a vertical standing, swinging chain cage.  I was mostly naked, vulnerable, and on display for a crowd. But oh, how I love cages!

Not the one I was in-- but this is a yummy cage!

And then there’s the fun of electrical play.   I think the anticipation of the shock is often the worst part.  (Especially when your play partner mind fucks you into thinking he’s never used a cattle prod before!).   We even brought the fun outdoors for Labor Day picnic-ing and played with a dog’s shock collar!  Who says picnics in the park can’t be kinky?!

So all in all, this was a fun venture!   But don’t get me wrong… I am still looking forward to a good beating as soon as possible!

I’ve jumped right back into a new community of super fun perverts and kinky people.  I’ve already met some amazing individuals including photographer Charles Gatewood.  If you haven’t heard of him, definitely check out his work– he’s been snapping photographs of tattooed beauties, kinksters, modern primitives, and sexually liberated people for decades.  

Since I’ve been back,  I even found a new toy that I have a love/hate relationship with- I love the impact of the thud, but it’s really mean.   This toy packs a punch that you can feel move straight through you!    It’s a nasty lil rubber paddle made from a half inch of solid rubber.

yum!

I even had a “welcome back” slice of pizza with my favorite topping…   yum!

I’m currently moving and re-adjusting to a new location and do not yet have regular access to internet. I promise to update the site again soon. I’ve now moved to a new community of kinksters and there will be stories to come!

In this low economic period, it may seem unfathomable to spend extra money on toys or special equipment to beat and torture your play partners with– (I have been drooling over “The Mop“,  but won’t be able to rationalize buying it for quite some time to come!).   BUT- you can find some interesting ideas for toys and torture implements in some unexpected places!

Some of my favorite toys came from kitchen stores, dollar stores, and hardware stores.  I have 5 metal guitar finger pics that I picked up for cheap at Guitar Center and sharpened.

One nasty implement I’ve formed a love/hate relationship with is a stainless steel spatula covered in silicone- found at Ikea for 97 cents.    

I’ve also incorporated items like coat hangers, wooden spoons, hair brushes, plastic hair clips, and clothes pins into play.  All of which you can get very cheaply at a dollar store.  Items such as rope, chain, clamps, carabiners are always handy and found at any hardware store.

Now, walking through such stores with my play partner has become a form of foreplay for me!

…And as always, vivd imaginations and really good mind-fucks are enjoyable, much appreciated by a sub, and completely free!

Some people think it’s weird that I don’t have a foot fetish, but I love sexy high heeled shoes.  [In fact, I don't generally like feet, (and I hate them being tickled!)].

my current favorite shoe

But I’m only 5′1″ and I can use all the height I can get.

The high heel is actually quite complex in it’s context in society and psychology.  The high heel symbolizes femininity, but also male dominance and a desire to please men.  The heel can also be looked at as a form of female dominance- especially if worn by a Mistress.  The high heel has even been referred to as a phallic symbol.  And it could certainly be used as a weapon of pain (ever have someone wearing heels step on your foot? or on your chest, or your balls, for that matter?).

Some women say that high heels gives them a sense of empowerment, gives them authority, or makes them feel sexier… but let’s face it, wearing high heels actually puts you at a disadvantage (at the very least, it’s quite difficult to run after anyone!)

For me, I believe wearing high heels is a form of personal torture.  I will endure the pain of wearing 5″ heels over the course of a long fetish event, especially if I’m with an appreciative Dom.  And at the end of the night, I may just give in to that person with a foot fetish who is dying to give me a massage

Here’s an interesting article on “Why are high heels so enticing?” and another article High Heels:  4 Inches Closer to Heaven

When I was at Folsom Street Fair a few years ago, I stumbled upon Divine Interventions.  Home of the Baby Jesus Butt Plug, God’s Immaculate Rod, and Jackhammer Jesus.   And they have become a few of my most favorite toys!

You could say I have a bit of a preoccupation with religious paraphernalia.

What makes these toys even more perfect,  (or even “more wrong”),  is that I’m a preacher’s kid.   [So yes, the stories about minister's daughters being "wild", in this case, are true!].

One of my biggest turn-ons is cum.  I’m a sub that is into service, pleasing my dom, and very into giving head.  I truly enjoy working really hard, for as long as it takes, to get a nice big load of cum.  It’s a happy ending and proof of a job well done.

And what I love almost more than cum, is cum on food! A majority of the people I’ve told this to, think it’s just gross. But I have had some partners that have reveled in my fetish, and have had fun with it.  Including the breakfast of champions:  cum on toast, or going into a side alley to top off a fresh hot slice of pizza, and even incorporating it into food sex.

I just came upon a book called, “Natural Harvest:  A Collection of Semen Based Recipes”

You can find it here:  http://www.cookingwithcum.com/

Some of the recipes sound delicious, including chocolate truffles with a white creamy center and even one for a Smoothie.

It gives a whole new meaning to “creampie”.